This is the third time in the past year I've gotten a love tap from a car. Always on Milwaukee Ave... this one by Division... car just turned at the last moment from a parking spot and I swerved to avoid him then when I was in front of him I turned back into the bike lane and he came out of nowhere and hit me... not strong enough to do any damage.
I think the thing that pisses me off the most is when drivers aren't COMPLETELY beside themselves with remorse after a run-in. I HATE when they look at you and just kind of shrug their shoulders. If I ever hit a bike or a pedestrian I would immediately be out of the car and on my knees begging forgiveness.
A couple months ago I was riding and a guy "nudged" me into the curb trying to turn right in front of me - I finally stopped and he ended up running over my foot. Oddly enough no broken bones ... but again the driver was pissed that I tracked him down to yell at him.
I get so mad, but there's no where for it to go. I see other cyclists pounding on cars... but all I do is yell and flail my arms about I just wish they were more sorrowful. There's always that moment where I think "How much of a scene am I going to make here..."
Maybe after every time I get hit from now on I should get a copy/pic of their licence or threaten to call the cops - so I can publicly shame them here.
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Thanks for the advice, words of encouragement and hand slapping y'all. It's nice to be able to vent a bit after a stressful event like that...
Yeah, that's my tactic too, but rage can sometimes burn the rager, inciting an even more violent response. Do you remember Tommy McBride? I do. I knew Tommy. Tommy was a fellow bike messenger who was deliberately run over and murdered in a road rage incident back in the spring of 1999. I am certain that Tommy's anger was righteous, and his response was similar to what I have performed on countless occasions. However, Tommy encountered Carnell Fitzpatrick on a fateful day, and Carnell was gonna teach that punk a f*ckin' lesson. Yeah, there were consequences. If you're not familiar with the story, do a simple search. It was covered widely.
Gene Tenner said:
I see nothing wrong with making a scene. Doing nothing emboldens them more, and they will continue their evil ways. A scene makes them realize that there are consequences to their actions.
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